May we all never ever feel the need to defend the wrong person ever again. if we see red flags, not just with the way they are but with how they treat us with so many excuses; if they are not ready, they just aren’t.
To stay in the gray continously just so we don’t lose people is setting yourself up for more pain and a longer agony… it’s sad and it’s hard but it’s worthier than dealing with stubborness and always trying to wait for people who are clearly in a different season.
Don’t be afraid of letting go.
that just means they’re not right for you; maybe not yet or maybe they really are the wrong ones but one thing’s for sure.. someone’s gonna come along one day and they’ll come with peace, time, hope, and love. A love that is finally ready to commit.
And if you wait for that, it’ll be more than what you’ve imagined or prayed and hoped for. It hasn’t happened to me yet too but I’ve seen it, my friends and loved ones found it. We’ll find it too one day. But for now, let go. It’s okay.
It’s okay.
— Blythe Naza
Screenshot photo: Glorious (Movie)

